Dating a man with small children

I knew it was wrong,so I had to make the best choice for me.

We only had 1 sexual encounter,but 1 time was enough for me to realize that ONE-he was only using me b/c he said he and his wife were constantly arguing over different things (had just lost his job, I guess I was his temporary shoulder to cry on until they made up), TWO-I found out shortly after that his wife was pregnant(so I guess that they weren't having sex as much as he wanted,so once again I was a temporary quick fix),and THREE-I don't like being second best,so I decided to stop talking to him before I started to develop deeper feelings for this man because in the end it won't even be worth it. It's amazing the kind of advice and support I see here.Dear Hating Every Minute, I can understand the difficulties you encounter in dating a man with children/divorced, but I ask that you take a step back and re-read some of your post.Yes you deserve love and to be treated better, but I would hope that a man would choose his children over a simple desire to be with another woman.I have many times wondered why I even stick around and take this from a relationship I'm so unhappy with but the truth of the matter is, what's between him and me is unbelievable.Without all the frustrations and tension caused by his other world, what we have would flourish and be absolutely beautiful.

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